Articles from November 2014

I used to live here for a long time. I have learned the hard way that you can be completely right about something but also be completely wrong by how you respond to the mess. At the end of the day after the explosion you are left with fingers pointing at you. “Awww, did you see what she did?”, “Did you see how she looked?”, “What’s wrong with her?” , “Ewww, she got problems”. The real problem never gets dealt with when you become a by-product of the problem. It is easier to point at the weeds than to deal with the roots.

A lot of people say that this woman is not too bright. Ha! Behind all of the foolishness and subtitles….she is crafty. Crafty enough to create a photo op with Alana’s father in the midst of the controversy of her being involved again with the man who molested her oldest daughter. Now to learn that TLC is going to resume the show and continue to pay money to this woman who obviously has no regard for the safety of her children.
I am SICK of these mothers who need to be loved so bad, who feel that they are not complete unless they have a pair of pants and a warm body beside them at night, that they turn a blind eye to what should matter the most, their children. It is called child endangerment and they should be prosecuted the same as the molesters.

The most powerful gift that you can ever give yourself and others is the gfit of “resolution”. When things are resolved or when resolution happens, it sweeps a path from where you are standing now and clears it well into the future. Unfortunately, resolution is a gift that is seldom given and people are left with paths scattered with things that they are not sure whether to keep or throw to the side. Make it a point to resolve whatever you can.

There is a difference between a “people person” and a “person who has a deep love for people” .

I keep hearing that the strong have to bear the infirmities of the weak, but even iron that is left in the fire too long starts to bend – Helen