Wow! Jennifer Holliday was very theatrical in this video!
Song says,” I am not living without you, I don’t wanna be free, I’m staying and your gonna love me”. Why do women do this to themselves? You can stay right there baby locked up in the residue of what was never love in the first place, he is and was already gone a long time. Free yourself!!!!! You don’t think you can live without him, but when you let him leave you physically and emotionally (in other words quit thinking about the man), you will live even better.
I am not speaking from a place of not knowing what this feels like. I know what it is to love man who just …..I don’t know….just… goes away….for whatever reason. I know what it feels like to love someone with the purest form of love on Earth, to hold that relationship before God everyday and ask him to bless it, to deny the things that you really want to do( clearing throat) in order to have an honorable relationship before God, but still and yet you end up crying and alone.
The best gift that a man who can’t value and love you can give you is to walk away. Actually my sisters, help him out the door. Go on and cry your tears and let those tears provide water to nourish you for your real blessings. No one wants to feel disregarded and treated like you never even existed. No one wants to see the person they love move on with someone else and you have to live with their good bye and sometimes you don’t even get that. Whatever you do don’t numb yourself to those feelings because out of those feelings will come some of the greatest lessons that you will ever learn about yourself. – Helen